You have the keys, My Love, to unlock yourself from the prison of your chores in the basement.
Just walk upstairs – into the light – and go look for what and who you want.
You are right that “he” may not find you when you are locked away, but that is because you don’t really want to be found. You believe that if you are carried off, you won’t know where you will be.
You say you want change, but deep down you fear it. You are safe from harm where you are, but you are also alone.
Come upstairs Sweetheart, where I will come with you – wherever you go – and keep you safe.
You don’t need a Prince. You had one and he was charming – and selfish and alcoholic.
You want a Partner. A man who can mirror you in every way – one who is smart and funny and kind and compassionate. One who is beloved by family and friends and is doing what he can to make the world a better place.
You want to share laughter and passion and love and connections.
You want to learn and grow and share and contribute together.
You want to dance and sing and travel and see the world together.
He’s out there looking for you, Sweetheart, but you have to go outside so he can find you.
You can handle the light, Sweetheart, because you are light – and love – and laughter.
Just let yourself be all that and feel all that, and he will see the beacon and appear.
So, Dear Cindy, Lindy, you don’t need to be a servant and you don’t need to sit passively by hoping for a magical occurrence. Go make your own magic. Be your own magic. And watch your magic unfold.
Here to be your wand and helper,
Your Loving IWS